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I have a few different theories on why relationships don’t work out. I can’t say I’m an expert in the field, considering I was a late bloomer in the dating field. Nonetheless, I’m good at observing people, and how they interact, and through that, along with what little experience I have, I’ve come up with some interesting conclusions. So read through them, and let me know what your thoughts are.
People are constantly observing you. They are judging you by your actions, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you dress. What you reflect on the outside, can sometimes be more beneficial, or even, detrimental, to you’re position in society, than who you are on the inside. You could almost say, life is your stage, and you’re the actor. The better you play the role, the better ratings you’ll get from the critics, or in this case, society.
I’m on an Indian DL (distribution list) at work, where mainly Indian folks exchange information, post classifieds, etc. I recently came across a request from someone named Jyothi, who is looking for a carpool buddy from Fremont. Whoa!
Perfect, nah? So I respond, we exchange contact info, and a few minutes later I get a call from the person. So I answer, and it’s a guy. What the freak? When did Jyothi’s become guys. That’s like having a male Jessica. Doesn’t make sense. Anyhow, I think to myself, it’s okay, whatever saves me time and money. We agree to begin carpooling today, Monday.
Do you want to learn to communicate better in your relationship? If so, here are some tips to help you verbally connect with a spouse, significant other, or anyone else important in your life.
Stop, close your mouth, and listen. Living in a fast-paced world, all too often we forget to take the time to listen to what people are saying to us. Take the time to genuinely listen to what the other person has to say, through their words, and body language. People can pick up on when you’re “faking it” 
And make sure to communicate after listening (step #5 ).
We attract those people who are of similar maturity level to our own. If we find ourselves always surrounded by immature people, then there needs to be a change in our environment in order to grow and mature. We are never the same from inside, as we are outside in terms of maturity. There are different stages of life. We are at cross roads when we hit those rough spots, which stops us to grow or pay attention to life’s valuable lessons mentally. So a person’s maturity level can never be determined by his biological growth. Maturity is a very important vehicle in establishing a successful relationship. Below are 3 basic types of relationships based on person’s maturity level.
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